金秋十月,天凉气爽,正好也是我们高中毕业,上大学的四十周年,同学聚会邀请纷沓而至。为了能同时照顾父母,只能参加大学同学一天的聚会了。
回国的飞机上,浏览看了一个电影,讲述一个因同学聚会而起的故事。电影是现实和倒述交叉。讲的是上世纪八十年代,上小学,初中的姐妹俩和一个刚转学来的男同学的爱恋。男同学喜欢上了姐姐,可姐姐却不在意这男同学,即便是后来上了同一所大学,男同学也没能追到姐姐。可是妹妹一开始就暗恋这男同学,而男同学却同样对妹妹也是没感觉。最后,姐姐没经住花言巧语的追求和口福的诱惑,嫁了个在大学食堂的厨子。妹妹没追到男主角,只好也另嫁了他人。几十年过去,姐姐婚姻极不幸福,最后忧郁自杀。妹妹的婚姻倒是还过得去,男同学最终也没有大的作为,说是作家,可只写了一本和姐姐爱恋有关的故事。
这是个看上去很老套的故事,却能让我感慨万分。那是我们那个年代常有的故事。看了这电影,让我很自然就想到了熟悉的同学,十分相类似的真事。也是一个漂亮而且很聪明的女同学,不接受英俊,同样聪明的男生的追求,和食堂的一个年轻厨子好上了。按说男同学也没少费心思,我们都知道的,就有他每天早早起床,早饭也顾不上吃,跑到教室去给女同学占位子,当然,不知道的事儿应该还有很多。可这样过了一年半载,似乎有什么进展。都是男同学主动,女生没什么反应。这种单边的追求没能持续多久,估计是那女同学没感觉,一直都不怎么上心,最后不了了之。直到过了一段,学校处分女同学,开除了学籍,我们才知道她和那个什么都不是的厨子好上了。他们应该是做得太过份了,要不然只是谈恋爱,也不至于开除学籍。
女人心 ,海底针。也或许,上这当,为的可能就是那一点口福吧。的确,在我们年轻时的那年代,食品匮乏,能在打菜时多那么一点点,能解不少馋。可为这就投怀送抱,实在不值。所以,女儿要富养,真是很有道理的。
和电影里不同的是,女同学被开除学籍后,也没什么出息,毁了一辈子,最终,他们俩人也没成。倒是男同学爱情事业双丰收,后来不仅娶了另一个更漂亮的女同学,而且事业有成。如今是全国闻名的专家,同学聚会上都是趾高气扬的。而那女同学自那以后就失联了,从不和同学来往,更不用说参加同学聚会了。
男女关系其实既复杂也简单。看看周围的人,很难有能死去活来地爱一辈子的。绝大多数都是磨合一辈子,吵吵闹闹也就这么过来了。不论是在生活中还是故事里,浪漫的爱情都是一段时间的事,能有一辈子的爱情,是极为难得的稀罕。然而,俩个人的开始却不能没有爱情,对于多数现代人,这没法将就。
Like the look. Will order more of this style in the future.
- Switzerland
Timely arrival, replaced prior Air Monarch, new, happy with purchase
- Switzerland
Husband says this is the most comfortable sneaker he's ever worn. Loves them!!!!
- Guam
excellent tennis shoes, they look great and are very comfortable, they fitted as expected.
- Singapore
These are the the most comfortable shoes and my second pair of this particlar model. I wore the first out.
- Liberia
Ordered the 4e for extra width and they are as expected. Comfortable and easy to slip on with shoelaces tied loosely,
- Singapore
I love the Air Monarch 4, especially now that it doesn't seem to have the squeeking problem that plagued them before. Very comfortable.
- Singapore
These are exactly as described. The 4E means extra wide, but 3E was not available so I went for these.I now have a fresh bounce in my air step.Best Regards,
- Switzerland
Great shoe, But they are too small. I have another pair of the same shoes in a size 10. But these fit like a size 9.5. Had them for 5 minutes And can not wear them. Returning them
- Liberia
I purchased this for my son and he loves them. He wants another pair in a different color but although the price was right, I'm a disabled single mother on a limited income so these were a humongous splurge but he deserves it.
- Switzerland
2023-12-15 13:57:42--
Got the Kelly Green perfect! But, the size is larger than expected. Still great though!
2023-12-15 13:56:26--
According to my personal experience, the reputation of this store is quite good. The quality of the product is more like a diamond. thank you very much!
2023-12-15 13:55:46--
Sports are very good the only thing they fit small
2023-12-15 13:55:24--
Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:54:49--
Take size above well made but there are some trace of glue
2023-12-15 13:52:48--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:52:31--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:50:43--
The shoes is not the correct size.
2023-12-15 13:50:24--
for the amount money payed i guess there okay there was no box and shoes came a little damaged and the tongue was horrible and shoes came a little big i probably won’t be buying here again
2023-12-15 13:48:20--
Perfect
2023-12-15 13:48:06--
great shoes
2023-12-15 13:46:41--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:45:45--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:43:12--
they look great and they feel good on my feet. thanks again
2023-12-15 13:42:56--
great seller, very responsive; the sneakers look great and i recommend
2023-12-15 13:41:14--
These shoes are comfortable and the overall design is pretty accurate! Shoe fits true to size. Only thing I’m not thrilled about is the shoe galaxy print seems to be on more of a fabric like material instead of the plastic like material. It may be easier to spot it’s a rep because of that otherwise the rest of the shoe looks amazing and spot on.
2023-12-15 13:40:52--
Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:40:19--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:37:41--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:37:38--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:36:15--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:35:36--
good value for the money, this product is superb!
2023-12-15 13:33:04--
All very well!
2023-12-15 13:31:03--
Neutral
2023-12-15 13:30:36--
Correct but forgotten jersey of the French champion logo on the Channel
2023-12-15 13:30:19--
Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:29:27--
Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:27:07--
All right
2023-12-15 13:25:46--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:24:41--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:20:45--
AGAIN AND AGAIN A FUCKING GOOD QUALITY ! Amazing! THANKS !!!!
2023-12-15 13:18:48--
The jersey was ok, shipping took forever and seller has barely respond to you, little to no communication.
2023-12-15 13:16:46--
Excellent
2023-12-15 13:12:38--
Great quality shirt and perfect fitting
2023-12-15 13:12:04--
This is a very good quality top ,buy with confidence a great price matched anything in the shops.
2023-12-15 13:12:04--
Very good, fast logistics and friendly customer service, great items and purchases!
2023-12-15 13:10:49--
perfect 👍
2023-12-15 13:08:27--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:06:57--
Very satisfied with my purchase very fast delivery (a week arriving in Paris) quality at the top nothing to say and thank you for the small gift (Nike sock)
I will probably recommend
2023-12-15 13:02:24--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:02:09--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 13:00:43--
great product and fast shipping
2023-12-15 13:00:41--
Good quality. Highly recommend
2023-12-15 13:00:02--
Shipping was fast and exactly as expected.
2023-12-15 12:57:18--
excellent shoes dm me for more pics on my insta @nathanbyrner
2023-12-15 12:57:05--
Real Review: Amazingggg shoes lol no problems with them at all shoes took around 2 weeks to come. I have wide feet so I recommend going a half size up if you have wide feet.
2023-12-15 12:55:28--
Beautiful simply beautiful
2023-12-15 12:55:04--
Shoes was really amazing!!! More like the authentic one!!! You can’t tell the difference!!! Will recommend 💯 and will order again. Thank you.
2023-12-15 12:55:00--
amp;quot;Shoes came in a good and timely manner, showed up in perfect condition. Great shoe that looks good with pretty much anything. Gives a nice clean look to an outfit and is one of my favorites. I would order many times again. Great product.amp;quot;
2023-12-15 12:54:55--
very good quality, i recommend
2023-12-15 12:53:11--
arrived really quickly in under 2 weeks...the quality is A++...i recommend this seller. i would be shopping here again
2023-12-15 12:52:48--
quality good especially for the price
2023-12-15 12:52:02--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 12:51:48--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 12:50:45--
Nice material. Thick and soft. The T-shirt runs large and I got XXXL based on the size chart. I should have got XXL instead. But overall very good quality.
2023-12-15 12:50:40--
This is a very fast delivery.
2023-12-15 12:49:03--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 12:48:57--
Awful!! This is a waste of money, and time.
Horrible does not have quality.
Super Bad Quality.
2023-12-15 12:48:03--
Excellent seller
2023-12-15 12:46:46--
Poor quality product
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