金秋十月,天凉气爽,正好也是我们高中毕业,上大学的四十周年,同学聚会邀请纷沓而至。为了能同时照顾父母,只能参加大学同学一天的聚会了。
回国的飞机上,浏览看了一个电影,讲述一个因同学聚会而起的故事。电影是现实和倒述交叉。讲的是上世纪八十年代,上小学,初中的姐妹俩和一个刚转学来的男同学的爱恋。男同学喜欢上了姐姐,可姐姐却不在意这男同学,即便是后来上了同一所大学,男同学也没能追到姐姐。可是妹妹一开始就暗恋这男同学,而男同学却同样对妹妹也是没感觉。最后,姐姐没经住花言巧语的追求和口福的诱惑,嫁了个在大学食堂的厨子。妹妹没追到男主角,只好也另嫁了他人。几十年过去,姐姐婚姻极不幸福,最后忧郁自杀。妹妹的婚姻倒是还过得去,男同学最终也没有大的作为,说是作家,可只写了一本和姐姐爱恋有关的故事。
这是个看上去很老套的故事,却能让我感慨万分。那是我们那个年代常有的故事。看了这电影,让我很自然就想到了熟悉的同学,十分相类似的真事。也是一个漂亮而且很聪明的女同学,不接受英俊,同样聪明的男生的追求,和食堂的一个年轻厨子好上了。按说男同学也没少费心思,我们都知道的,就有他每天早早起床,早饭也顾不上吃,跑到教室去给女同学占位子,当然,不知道的事儿应该还有很多。可这样过了一年半载,似乎有什么进展。都是男同学主动,女生没什么反应。这种单边的追求没能持续多久,估计是那女同学没感觉,一直都不怎么上心,最后不了了之。直到过了一段,学校处分女同学,开除了学籍,我们才知道她和那个什么都不是的厨子好上了。他们应该是做得太过份了,要不然只是谈恋爱,也不至于开除学籍。
女人心 ,海底针。也或许,上这当,为的可能就是那一点口福吧。的确,在我们年轻时的那年代,食品匮乏,能在打菜时多那么一点点,能解不少馋。可为这就投怀送抱,实在不值。所以,女儿要富养,真是很有道理的。
和电影里不同的是,女同学被开除学籍后,也没什么出息,毁了一辈子,最终,他们俩人也没成。倒是男同学爱情事业双丰收,后来不仅娶了另一个更漂亮的女同学,而且事业有成。如今是全国闻名的专家,同学聚会上都是趾高气扬的。而那女同学自那以后就失联了,从不和同学来往,更不用说参加同学聚会了。
男女关系其实既复杂也简单。看看周围的人,很难有能死去活来地爱一辈子的。绝大多数都是磨合一辈子,吵吵闹闹也就这么过来了。不论是在生活中还是故事里,浪漫的爱情都是一段时间的事,能有一辈子的爱情,是极为难得的稀罕。然而,俩个人的开始却不能没有爱情,对于多数现代人,这没法将就。
Like the look. Will order more of this style in the future.
- Switzerland
Timely arrival, replaced prior Air Monarch, new, happy with purchase
- Switzerland
Husband says this is the most comfortable sneaker he's ever worn. Loves them!!!!
- Guam
excellent tennis shoes, they look great and are very comfortable, they fitted as expected.
- Singapore
These are the the most comfortable shoes and my second pair of this particlar model. I wore the first out.
- Liberia
Ordered the 4e for extra width and they are as expected. Comfortable and easy to slip on with shoelaces tied loosely,
- Singapore
I love the Air Monarch 4, especially now that it doesn't seem to have the squeeking problem that plagued them before. Very comfortable.
- Singapore
These are exactly as described. The 4E means extra wide, but 3E was not available so I went for these.I now have a fresh bounce in my air step.Best Regards,
- Switzerland
Great shoe, But they are too small. I have another pair of the same shoes in a size 10. But these fit like a size 9.5. Had them for 5 minutes And can not wear them. Returning them
- Liberia
I purchased this for my son and he loves them. He wants another pair in a different color but although the price was right, I'm a disabled single mother on a limited income so these were a humongous splurge but he deserves it.
- Switzerland
2024-01-03 23:48:00--
I am satisfied with the bag however the dust bag it comes with looks really cheap and the item does not come with a box, which was disappointing. Cute bag, but I don’t think I will order again
2024-01-03 23:47:58--
Item was just as pictured..quality of leather great..the color of the buckles and chain was not too off from authentic..and shipping was pretty fast received in about 2-3 weeks
2024-01-03 23:46:40--
The quality of your store is very good, I am very satisfied with my purchase, I like it, and the products are made very well, very beautiful!! Very satisfied with the service and product! The seller's English is very good, customer-oriented, and personalized. I will definitely purchase from the seller again. Thank you.
2024-01-03 23:46:17--
Beautiful bag, very good quality. I appreciate the bag was shipped with ballon packing inside to help keep the shape and reduce creases. All of the hardware is printed as it should be, bag is nice and structured, leather very soft. 💯 would purchase again.
2024-01-03 23:29:42--
I didn’t like the jewel one. Doesn’t look like pic. The other one is ok.
2024-01-03 23:29:24--
Bracelet looks good but cheaply made. I gave it to my ten year granddaughter. Shipping was fast
2024-01-03 23:29:04--
One broke but the other was fine
2024-01-03 23:28:53--
Lovely item just took 2 months to receive. Very satisfied with quality
2024-01-01 00:50:37--
Took 2 months to get here but seller was very nice! Does not come with original box or anything, just a unmarked dust bag.. but is engraved inside great detail!
2024-01-01 00:50:35--
great quality great seller. but it took a little long. if they can get them to you faster I will only buy these from them. great quality
2024-01-01 00:49:32--
Obsessed! I’m glad I got the thinner one!
2024-01-01 00:47:19--
Very good quality very satisfactory
2024-01-01 00:45:43--
DO NOT ORDER !
A seller I order from quite a bit, I paid for a product a lot of money I got a bad product and it does not answer! Do not order from him! If the seller answers me and corrects the order I will update the posts! Until then, do not buy from him!
2024-01-01 00:42:49--
Thank you very much looks very good came fast too
2024-01-01 00:39:48--
The sandals are beautiful, the only detail is the color of the bottom rubber platform, is seems is not the same pattern one from another.
2024-01-01 00:37:59--
speedy delivery excellent quality
2024-01-01 00:37:51--
amazing quality. Will order again.
2024-01-01 00:37:05--
great seller, arrived quickly and is really nice
2024-01-01 00:36:33--
The delivery time was a bit long, but that's to be expected. The shoes are excellent - great quality
2024-01-01 00:31:46--
You have to be careful I’m not purchasing the knock off I made that mistake. I thought it took way too long to come. I feel like I was waiting forever but the quality of the shoes is great definitely will purchase again but damn that weight time killer
2024-01-01 00:30:19--
Unsatisfied
2024-01-01 00:30:04--
Colors don’t compare at all. They are supposed to be suede and not even close. Really disappointed but what can you do.
2024-01-01 00:28:56--
Shopping experience was good. The sole of the shoe is a little thicker than I thought
2024-01-01 00:28:44--
Satisfied with my purchase! Regularly a woman’s 8 and ordered these in a size 39. Perfect fit super cute. Looks and feels legit. The box however is not worth keeping. Shipping took a little longer than expected, roughly 27 days.
2024-01-01 00:28:07--
Omg they are perfect the look exactly like the real ones I wanted to post a picture but I haven’t taken on yet love love love them
2024-01-01 00:27:19--
came super fast, has a small odor but it still go away once you leave them out to air... really nice shoe
2024-01-01 00:26:35--
unbelievable
2024-01-01 00:22:54--
Look exactly as pictured.
2024-01-01 00:22:29--
Thanks, looks like original
2024-01-01 00:18:03--
Such great quality really happy with these! :)
2024-01-01 00:17:59--
The best love it, good quality 100% Satisfied
2024-01-01 00:17:58--
Very good quality. Item exactly as described
2024-01-01 00:17:55--
The seller is really good, thank you very much!
2024-01-01 00:16:51--
Quality is awesome and looks just like the original
2024-01-01 00:11:56--
Shoes run very weird. I'm a U.S. 8.5. I had to order a size 40 EURO. after the 2nd pair I got the sizing right. overall I ordered 4 pairs. The quality is exceptional they come with the logo. These are a must cop. I was confused as to why they came shipped separately but the seller reassured me they'd arrive. I was skeptical but they eventually arrived. Will be buying all colors.
2024-01-01 00:11:46--
Legit! They are fantastic!
2024-01-01 00:07:26--
Great quality
2023-12-15 14:30:07--
This is the real deal! All letters and numbers are stitched along with the Jordan symbol!!!
2023-12-15 14:29:20--
AMAZIMGGG love it. Color was a bit off on this one. This was my second order
2023-12-15 14:29:05--
This seller never fails. This is my third time ordering from them and they never let me down. Shipping only took 2 weeks and the quality is amazing. This seller is 10/10 and I would recommend.
2023-12-15 14:28:53--
Just like my name brand one! Like exact down to details.
2023-12-15 14:26:06--
I like
2023-12-15 14:18:51--
Excellent ! Je recommande fort
2023-12-15 14:18:45--
Perfect and very fast in 12 days !
2023-12-15 14:15:58--
had a name printed on the jersey which was shocking. seller couldn't even own up to the error!
2023-12-15 14:15:56--
Very poor service. Late delivery by 3 months even after being guaranteed service in 30 days. When package did arrive, Badges on sleeve’s were hanging off and parts of top had scratches on it. Asked to open a dispute and was rejected. Seller did not communicate well with me.
2023-12-15 14:15:38--
late/long shipping
blue shorts instead of white
quality look good
2023-12-15 14:10:55--
Great shirt
2023-12-15 14:10:39--
Great jersey
2023-12-15 14:10:39--
Great thanks
2023-12-15 14:10:28--
Great quality
2023-12-15 14:08:53--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 14:08:16--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 14:07:01--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 14:06:39--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 14:06:29--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 14:05:04--
Very Satisfied
2023-12-15 14:03:06--
Very pleased, Thank you to the seller.
2023-12-15 14:01:09--
Great quality would definitely recommend! Will be buying from this seller again. Delivery was also super quick!!
2023-12-15 13:59:34--
Satisfied
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